Dear Lily

Dear Lily,

Your little brother is due to arrive any day now. Right now we are a beautiful family of three. You are the center of our world. You bring laughter into this house every single day. You talk about the new baby’s arrival on a daily basis. You say good morning to my tummy and talk about all the fun you will have with your brother. You talk to me about taking him on walks, changing his diaper, and showing him your toys. I think you will be a wonderful big sister. Although you know he is coming soon, I’m not sure you understand what that really means. It means that Mommy and Daddy will have to give attention to you and your brother. It might take some time before you adjust to this change, but I know you will be fine.

I have been a little worried about how you will feel. I don’t ever want you to feel rejected or less special. In time, I know you will understand that we are giving you the greatest gift that we can...a sibling. I hope you and your brother build a friendship and a relationship that can only be understood by having a sibling.

I have been treasuring every last few moments of our family of three. The truth is, you will never remember the first two beautiful years of your life when it was just the three of us. I can’t even remember what life was like before you. When you read this someday, I want you know that this has been the most special time of my life. You have taught me how to mother, you have taught me how to let go, and you have taught me about how much love is in this world. Mommy and Daddy have a lot of love to give. You will always be special to us. I am excited to imagine all the love we all have to give to each other.

Love,
Mommy